Inspiration from Preeti Shenoy

For the past two weeks,  I am on high keeping Preeti Shenoy as an inspiration. I love her blog, and more than that, I love the positive attitude and the thinking. And since I liked her blog posts, I ended up buying all the four books by her.

I do admire her as a writer, considering the fact that she started just like any other Indian woman, being a wife and mother, and coping with grief and ups and downs, and using her blog to vent her feelings. And now, she is the author of four novels. I have even heard her TED Talks where she talks of positivity and creative growth.  And when she says through her blog to live every day, just get up and do it and in such simple words, it really sticks onto my mind.

All the plots in the novels look ordinary, but what I liked in all of them, is the way she portray the feelings. The book I liked the most was the third one, “Tea for two and a piece of cake”. It was so  flowing and natural. The second one, “Life is what you make it” requires special mention, because of the way how she narrates the mental illness. Creating an imaginary story woven around familiar characters in life would have been easier for sure than imagining what goes through the mind of a patient with a crazy mental disorder. And especially when it was the first full length novel she wrote. The first book, “34 bubblegums and candies” would be the most simple and real book since it comprises mostly of  her blog post snippets and conveys so many things in such simple words.

I would really loved to have another similar book with selected blog posts on life , positive attitude, time management, etc which could easily be a best self-help book by an Indian author. And her smile is so infectious. Do catch her glimpse through her website

Kai Po Che – the movie

When Pavitra Rishta started, it was just another TV serial for me. The stars were new, and as like any new drama serial, I was hooked for the initial months not just because of the story, but because of the chemistry between the lead actors. I have noticed that all the hero-heroines of serials by Ekta Kapoor have been a great pair and most of them has got on-screen jodi awards.

So when Kai Po Che was released with my favourite actor, Sushant Singh Rajput in the main role, I just dreamt of watching him for two hours. His smile is so attractive, and the blunt, careless look adds to the charm. Though I have read all the books by Chetan Bhagat except for Revolution 2020, I disliked this one most. The riots and the tragedies was not what I expected from his stories. Especially after the Five Point Someone. His books had that “Happily ever after” cliche which lured readers like me to read many more.

It was a surprise, when my otherwise reluctant husband wanted to watch a movie in theater for weekend relaxation, and it was the perfect weekend. There were in-laws visiting us this month, which made babysitting N not a task. And then there was this film.Continue reading →

Challenge adaptation

Not even two days are over, and I am already missing Facebook. But the good thing is, its not the notifications, comments, photos and statuses, but I miss the communities, the knowledge passed between people, the virtual conversations happening in them, and the Pages through only which some stores operate. Atleast I found out what is the advantage of being in Facebook.

So now, I am adapting the challenge to limit myself, access to Facebook only when required, and if required, not more than half hour a day. Let me get the timer of the mobile phone into action, which has been unused till now..

30 day challenge?

Recently I was searching for some inspirational videos, quotes and posts which could lift my sombre mood, and I found this TED Talk of doing something new for 30 days. I had already heard of blogging marathon, or the novel writing in the month of November, which are some of the “do it in 30 days” challenges. But one of the slides mentions that its also an opportunity to reduce or subtract something from your life. While reading on time management tips from Preeti Shenoy, I found that I spend lot time wasting on Facebook. I would read the innumerous feeds, searching for inspirations, links and clicks, to follow what other people do, rather than searching myself on what can I do, and doing that then and there. Procastination has been a habit every afternoon when my little one sleeps. Thats the only me time I get and I spend wasting on internet reading and catching up what others are doing.

I am thinking of some resolution at this point that I will not check out FB, unless I do something creative enough to show others off. Rather I would just concentrate on this blogging to see whether it really excites me much. This will not be one post a day challenge, but I wish to take up that soon.

Let me control my cravings first, and then see whether I can embark on another journey.

On being at home

While searching for inspirations on what to blog on, I usually try to read as many blogs as I can. Its like a conversation. Some say their opinion, and we too come up with ours.

So I read most of the Project 52 blog posts for the Week 6 from the Facebook, and found a blog by Uma. She expressed almost the same feelings on being at home which I wanted to convey and that too in a beautiful free flowing language. Since I am just trying to find my rhythm back, I guess I would just quote the lines which spoke like “its me who is talking there”!Continue reading →