Chitchat with my little one

Yesterday, after returning from playschool, N was not in a mood to settle back into home. As I was removing her school uniform, in a casual chat about happenings in school, she asked me,

“You don’t have school, Amma?”

“No, I already went to school when I was young like you”

“Appa also went to school?”

“Yes, he also went to school like you”

” Which school you went, Amma?”

“Holy Angels” (Tries hard to repeat that!)

“So where was I when you went to school?”

“Er..You were not there that time na”

“Or did I stayed here, all alone, with the doggy?..”
(Makes sad face..)
(Doggy is a soft toy who she considers as a real life dog)

“Or was Ammoomma here with me..”
(Starts making all guesses..)

I catch the opportunity and with wide eyed face and teeth, asks her,
“Shall we have lunch.. Guess what is it for lunch baby!!!?”

In my implicit thank you note to the invisibles, ” Oh the Unknown, please provide me with constant supply to the bulb in my head.”

The little shoe

Soon, that day would arrive when her daughter, D would be married off.
And then she would scurry here and there, along with her husband and relatives, in order to make the arrangements. In midst of all the excitement, she would take few moments to remember the memories.
She would be in the constant fear, when her daughter went out of the door to meet her friends and colleagues.
She would remember how her child helped her in the kitchen work, making non-stop comments and gossip on her friends.
She would shed tears of joy when D topped her graduation in first class, and got her first job.
She would lost hope at times when D rebelled in her teenage years, like any other daughter.
She would give the ‘big talk’ she gave when she became the ‘big girl’.
She  would comb and plait her hair before going to school.
She would struggle to feed her, when D was young.
She would search for her little lost shoe in the whole house.
She would smile at the mischiefs and the scares D gave her in her toddler years, and her sweet smile with the milk tooth.
She would feel so blessed to see the baby sleeping in her arms.
She would be called a mom if, after all the months in her womb, she had born that day…
And only if ‘Drishya‘ had not become ‘Adrishya‘ that day…
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PS: Written for photo prompt at Write tribe.

Little did she know

She opened up her laptop after he had gone. It had been ages since he got her any surprise gifts. She thought it was time. She ordered the few dresses she had always dreamt of. Little did she know that he would get her the biggest surprise of her life that evening. The divorce letter.

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The post was written for the 55 on Friday writing prompt at Writetribe.

Alphabet meme

Again, one of those meme days. I feel its an easy way to fill up the empty days. This one is again taken from Shilpa’s blog. This meme is in two parts, and I am yet to fill up the second part to reserve it for another rainy day. Hmmm..

The Letter A 
Are you agnostic? I think I am. Maybe I would turn believer again in old age, like I used to in childhood. You need to get some satisfactory answer to rest in peace.
What is your age? The dreaded 30.
What annoys you? That I am wasting my time by not doing anything or being productive.
 
The Letter B
Do you like bacon? No. Only eggs in the non-veg department.
When is your birthday? In the month of October, one day before Libra ends.
Who is your best friend? Reshmy
 
The Letter C 
What is your favorite candy? Alpenliebe or Mango Bite.
Who is your crush? None now. There were lots before.
When was the last time you cried? Yesterday afternoon, after shouting at N.
 
The Letter D
Do you daydream? I used to, but now very less time to do it.
What is your favorite kind of dog? Not much knowledge on them. But lookwise, I like the cute white fluffy fancy dog.
What day of the week is it? Sunday
 
The Letter E
How do you like your eggs? Maybe scrambled or fried with sunny side up. Everyday its either boiled or omlette at home as per N’s liking.
Have you ever been in the emergency room? Not yet, luckily.
What’s the easiest thing to ever do? Sit and watch TV
 
The Letter F
Have you ever flown in a plane? Yes.
Do you use fly swatters? Nope. For mosquitoes, my hands are enough. 
Have you ever used a foghorn? Nope. Had to Google it to know what is it. I haven’t started car driving yet, and even if I do, I do not think I would risk it in a fog.
 
The Letter G
Do you chew gum? Nope.
Ever tried gazpacho? Eh??Aing??
Are you a giver or taker? More towards the latter, trying to become the former.
 
The Letter H
How are you? I am fine, but sometimes get very moody.
What’s your height? 5’4″ was the last measured for marriage purposes.
What color is your hair? Black, which tends to go brown sometimes because of less oil.
 
The Letter I
What is your favorite ice-cream? Butterscotch.. mmmm..
Have you ever ice-skated? Nope. May not try it. Have heard so many accidents enough to scare me off.
Do you play an instrument? I told you already that. Veena
 
The Letter J 
What is your favorite jelly bean? Android. Yet to taste that.
Do you wear jewelry? Only the minimum essentials.
Have you heard a really hilarious joke? Don’t remember any as of now. The popular one in our home is the Sardar joke of “cutting and shaving at the barber’s”.
 
The Letter K 
Whom do you want to kill? None, I am not that brave to kill. 
Do you want kids? Yes. Already one down.
Where did you go to kindergarten? Holy Angel’s Convent, Trivandrum, Kerala
 
The Letter L
Are you laid-back? Oh yes.
Do you lie? Sometimes yes. Maybe half-yes. I try not to, but since I have to , I try twisting to the extent of speaking the truth but partially..
Do you love anyone? Many. We all do.. ain’t we? Love is not the puppy love anymore, as you grow older it comprises of many emotions.
 
The Letter M
What is your favorite movie? English Vinglish was a good one in 2013. All time favourite would be Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, since I have literally grown up watching it many times.!
Do you still watch Disney movies? No.
Do you like mangoes? Yes. not the juice, but the sliced juicy and sweet ones.
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Ready to gear up for another week??

Kwikdeko wall decal

Every weekend, on Saturday mornings, I prepare a list or would have already on the tasks to complete for the weekend. This weekend, one of them was to install the below wall decal ordered from Kwikdeko in the first week of January. The new year splurge for my home.
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It was indeed a family time with N too, wanting to stick the decal. I remembered the fevicol competition held at achool in my school days. We were asked to remove pre-cut shapes and then sticking them together using fevicol. I remembered because I feel I loved doing it. Maybe it has to do something with the crafts thing which always called me, but never got to do.
Anyways, this wall decal looks beautiful. We pasted it in our bedroom side wall, which had a large empty area. At present, it looks like worth the money. But I am not sure, how long will it last on the wall, since N is already playing near it. And from yesterday’s exercise, she has mastered how to remove the stickers from the paper and stick onto the wall.
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Have you tried wall decals? Show it off!!!

Wood pieces makeover

Few months ago, after doing some interior works at home, I had got these wood pieces as leftovers. Initially I planned to do it myself with the help of tutorials from Woodooz, but then, patience and I never gel together.

woodtiles before

The big piece was the leftover after they cut a wood paneling horizontally. The small pieces are the left over of the long posts which is quite common these days in many houses.

So with the help of The Spinning Wheel, a store near Whitefield, the wood pieces got a makeover.  They sanded, painted, fixed wood on the back of on the big rectangular piece, and fixed the Rajasthani tiles. The idea was to create a wall art, but I haven’t yet jumped into being the drillman to install it on wall.

Here is how they look for now. They are currently placed above the shoerack, so that I could take a picture and upload it here on request.

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I am not satisfied with this arrangement, and may either take them back to the cupboard till I find a more satisfying solution.

Any other ideas of how to use them??