Analogy of solar system

Few years ago, while I worked in Chennai, I remember having a discussion with my colleague on friendships. Yeah, you guessed it. I love thinking on such topics. The most used tag in this blog is obviously relationships and thoughts.


It came naturally for me to reply with an analogy of circles. I replied that gangs of friends can be considered like the orbits in a solar system, where in every person you meet in real life is a gravitational connection you make like the sun to the planets. They circle around you either closer or farther in an orbit with a gravitational force proportional to the wavelength of moral principles or values followed by the both you and them. But unlike the force from the sun, this wavelength is not static and therefore the orbit is also not exactly circular or elliptical but in similar closed shape. More like an amoeba circumference. It does not differentiate between family or friends or spouse. There maybe orbits close to each other or seems to overlap, which confuses your relationships, but there are subtle differences which differentiates them, and places them in their own orbit. And to complicate more, You or the sun can themselves act as planets revolving around some other Sun or person.


This can explain to a satisfactory extent on love, attraction, breakups, death, and not keeping in touch, etc. We keep in touch by not reducing the gravitational force towards the people we want to be close with. If there is a clash in the wavelength of thoughts there arises repulsive forces which may weaken the gravitational force allowing them to break off from the orbit. Love has more magnitude in the force than attraction. And hence even if you can be attracted to many, very few can be in your immediate circles including family or any other relative whom you are very close to. And the people who are in your memory or have died are still revolving around you, but with less force since you haven’t broken away from them, even if they have broke away from you.


I am still thinking on moulding other bits and pieces of this theory, for instance, the emphasis of time and lifespan in this unique complicated world. Do you have any inputs to help me out?


Linking the post at Ultimate blog challenge and Nablopomo.

Jaipur trip summary

“Kesariya balam.. Padharo mare des.. des re..” (Listen)
I heard this song initially in Balika Vadhu Hindi TV serial few years ago. The setting of the plot is in Rajasthan and this song kept playing as the title track every now and then. Little did I know then, that I would visit the place afterwards.

 

For the december vacations, many of the friends including travel websites and holiday packages, suggested Rajasthan as the place to go in India during December. Though we hesitated because of the cold weather and how it would affect N, there was no alternative coming up to suit our taste. The Delhi-Agra-Badrinath trip we had in 2009 was tempting now to do a north india tour once again. And so I set off planning the trip, which finally came to six days. Though the itinerary was created, and we went around following the main outline plan, sightseeing plans got topsy turvy but we managed to cover the most important places.

 

Finally this is what happened.
Day 0:
 We, a family of six people(including both sets of parents and N) started on Sunday evening flight from Bangalore to Jaipur and checked into hotel Suryaa Villa for the night. Also, we rented Toyota Innova for the next 2 days.

 

Day 1:
In the morning, after breakfast, we visited all the forts of Jaipur, Amer fort, Nahargarh fort and then Jaigarh fort and ended up having a late lunch at Rainbow Restaurant on Amer road. In evening, we roamed around Jalmahal before returning to the same hotel to retire for the night.

 

Day 2:
We drove to Pushkar for visiting the Brahma temple and then came back directly. Though we had plans for visiting Ajmer, the elders were not that interested in ‘unheard’ Jain temples and the mosques.

 

Day 3:
We had an elaborate and expensive breakfast in Laxmi Misthan Bhandar(LMB) hotel and explored the City Palace afterwards. After covering the nearby Jantar Mantar which was at walkable distance, we had lunch from the City Palace Cafe. Before the end of the day, we also visited the interior windows of  the Hawa mahal. Though we had plans of shopping in the bazaar streets, all were tired, and the Jaipur city bazaar crowd deterred us more from venturing.

 

Day 4:
Starting early at around 5am, we all got into Ranthambore Express train(04821) at 6.10am towards Jodhpur. From the railway station we arranged a Qualis for checking into Mandore Guest House and had lunch. The Qualis taxi driver, Prithvi Singh was so friendly and informative that we engaged him for visiting Mehrangarh fort and Jaswant Thada in the evening, and then returned to the guest house for dinner and rest.

 

Day 5:
To experience Rajasthani food, we dared to experiment that day without having breakfast at the guest house. The cordial driver showed us some famous sweet shop, but unfortunately it was not open until 10am. So we had some onion kachori, bread kachori, jilebi and gajar halwa to start the day. Afterwards we went to Umaid Bhawan Palace, and then Mandore Gardens, did some shopping, and lunch at Annapurna Restaurant Dhaba, again on the advice of the driver. In evening, we set out to Osian and stopped at Desert Cafe where we hired jeep safari to drive into the desert(which had little shrub vegetation unlike the real sand dunes) and then at the cafe, had tea(Rs.50!!) before driving back to Jodhpur guest house.

 

Day 6:
Again we started early to board the Jodhpur Indore intercity express train(12466) at 6am to return to Jaipur. Though we had plans in our initial itinerary to cover the places missed out in Jaipur, the elders were tired and the temples and gardens were quite far and not considered that important. So we rested at the railway station itself, before moving to airport in the evening, for the flight back to Bangalore. A better alternative was to board a return flight from Jodhpur , but flight rates were expensive since we booked late.

 

Other notes:
At Pushkar, a guide who offered the history details of temple and to show around the ghats, cheated us by leading to trap of poojaris asking for money in the name of donations(bhog). This ruined the whole pilgrimage experience, since he excused himself without showing us the actual temple.  The highlights at the Umaid Bhawan palace were only the museum showing history and artifacts of the creator Raja Umaid Singh and few vintage cars. Apart from the cars, there was nothing much to see there. At Jantar Mantar, we took a bad decision of taking an audio guide instead of personal guide. It became quite hard to understand the long audio explanations, but we did a workaround, by hovering around the groups roaming with guides to hear bits and pieces of information from them.

 

On hotels:
Suryaa Villa in Jaipur is a decent heritage hotel, with average rooms, but value for money service. The customer service was very good, the restaurant was OK, and there is outdoor and indoor dining, with an adjacent small swimming pool. They arranged taxis and had good knowledge on the sightseeing. Overall we were very satisfied with the budget hotel.
Mandore Guest House in Mandore is outside the Jodhpur city, but had a very good gardens with ambience. They had total of 16 bungalows, consisting of 3 hut rooms, and other stone cottages, with modern bathrooms. The food in the restaurant was very very good. The drawbacks were inefficient administration (we were presented with some other’s bills twice), and the complete absence of support for pickup from station, considering that the guest house is quite far away from the city central.

A good trip to refresh ourselves before we soak in the new dawn of 2014. The photos are shared in this Flickr set.

Linking this post at Ultimate Blog Challenge and Nablopomo.

Completed list of books and movies in 2013

For Day 3 of UBC and Nablopomo, I am listing out the books and movies I read and watched last year. When future is not clear, we rely on the past, ain’t it? I got the inspiration from the blog post chain “11 things every woman should write down before the year ends” by Corinne. Since we are already into January, I felt its not suitable to take forward the chain, but the answer to this question surprised me, that I could finish few books this year. I also liked the idea of keeping a checklist on the completed books and movies categorized monthly and yearly. I remember having a plugin installed on the blog long back, WP Movie Ratings, which showed a separate page for movies and its ratings.

Books:

Unread books in my shelf:

  • How to talk so kids will listen
  • What to expect – The toddler years
  • 1984
  • The Godfather
  • The white tiger
  • Life of Pi
  • Stay Hungry Stay Foolish

I am interested in finishing the book “Life of Pi” first, before I proceed to download and watch the film version. They say, films can never make justice to the books.  I have already felt it in the case of “Memoirs of Geisha“, which is one of the most unforgettable books that I have read and never got erased from my memory.

Movies:

  • Kai Po Che (Hindi)
  • Yeh Jawaani Hey Deewani (Hindi)
  • Chennai Express (Hindi)
  • English vinglish (Hindi)
  •  Barfi (Hindi)
  •  The Lunchbox (Hindi)
  • Dhoom 3 (Hindi)
  • Neram (Malayalam)
  • Salt n Pepper (Malayalam)
  • Ustad Hotel (Malayalam)
  • Gravity 3D (English)

I feel so disappointed myself that I did not review English Vinglish and Barfi because I liked them a lot. In Malayalam, ‘Neram’ made me realize Malayalam cinema has improved much more from where I left watching it long ago.

Overall, the preparation of this list has inspired me to collect more books and reviews for the 2014 year.

2013 in review

Today is the day 2 of the monthly challenge. I am still in the process of digging and collecting up ideas for the future posts. I even started writing on some ideas,but realized I could not finish it before the end of the day. So then suddenly rememberd that WordPress had send me the last year’s annual report. A blessing in disguise!

Here’s an excerpt:

A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 2,800 times in 2013. If it were a cable car, it would take about 47 trips to carry that many people.

Click here to see the complete report.

Posting this as part of monthly challenge held at Ultimate Blog Challenge and Nablopomo at Blogher.

 

Resolutions for 2014

The new year is here. Everyone is penning down their new year resolutions, looking back retrospectively, digging up events happened in last year to write down as a blog post. But it needs immense courage to list them all in public. Few notable achievements for me this year was the new laptop and N joining playgroup, as written before. We did a second revision to our home, with the help of an interior designer. Though the little artifacts and furnishings are yet to be bought and placed to make the setting beautiful. This year brought back my photography passion, and I started being more active in Flickr in the second half of the year.
The top few things running to my mind, when I think of the pending tasks for the year:
  • The first is of course to be regular on the blogging front. From the time I have joined WBNI and then WriteTribeBlogherIndibloggerBlogadda and started reading on many blogs, I noticed people are blogging off creatively at the writing prompts given in those websites, which is something I have not ever done before. I also want to rekindle the short stories and poems which I used to write years before. Those are the only posts I loved reading again, or which I consider good posts from this blog.
  • Second is to be more patient in dealing with N and RK. I realize that the anger and the yelling stems from the dissatisfaction of not doing any creative or productive work or not allotting time for personal development.
  • Third is to improve on my knowledge skills by listening to the courses provided by Coursera, Udacity or in general through Youtube. Are you like me, confused with psychiatrist and psychologist? If not, then you will surely get confused with the innumerable smaller branches in psychology.
  • Fourth is to improve on photography skills and take more good photos enough to get noticed and appreciated.
  • Though it should not be the last, I really need to start some exercises to be myself more healthy. I do not  like size zero, but I do want to be the 30 year old  that I am, instead of the 60 year old  my body reminds me at times. I had attended an artistic yoga trial class few months ago, which made me realize that my body is so stiff that I really need to act quick to gain some flexibility.
  • There are pending house chores, like fixing many photo frame walls, disposing clutter, starting on quilling or recycling jobs,  and also to give more importance to creating a beautiful garden.
There it is, the top goals for the months to come.  This post is a start to my first goal, to blog regularly, even if they are short posts. I should be thankful to NaBloPoMo at Blogher for the  January 2014 writing prompts.