Well.. Yesterday watched the film, but Ididnt find the film so bad and sucking…
The film was slow and dragging Ii agree, but the story theme is acceptable… atleast outside india and among the higher societies of india itself.. in the fast pacing run of our life, its hard to work out a marriage and when the peopl e at both sides cant take or adjust beyond a limit, this happens…. then what does the increasing number of divorce says??? in india mayb, ppl adjust more and live like that just to make their families happy.. they all mayb happy, but to how much extent is the contentment.. no one speaks out abt it…..
In this film too everyone is happy at times.. all the characters are good.. thinking on the indian old style, we can think like dev and rhea cud have adjusted a bit more, by rhea adjusting a bit more(as kirron kher says) or rishi and maya cud also have lived more happily, if they adjusted a bit more by finding out the others needs… but is this what one really wants of his/her own??? leave the family, society and ppl .. just the individuals….why does life turns out to be just a mere adjustment with some friend or known person??
Film Review – Mitr – my friend
Today, me down with small fever. So at home now. Being at home alone, i can realize the loneliness and the refuge one gets from internet at that time. Some days back, had seen the film ‘mitr’ which portrayed the worries of a married woman living in US. She remains at home whole day cookin and cleaning the house all alone, with no one to even talk to. Her expectations from her husband and daughter and when they both could not decrease her loneliness because of their own issues, she finds solace in an online friend, who at the end turns out to be none other than her husband! The film carries a strange remark-sometimes it gives us a different perspective when we talk to strangers. I don’t know how much this is true but it makes me happy when i talk to online people,to know that people listens……..
Wikimap
This wikimap site is inspired by google maps and wikipedia.
I have found already my places at trivandrum(near Chengalloor temple) and also the apartments(Kgeyes Ishwarya Aptmts) i reside in chennai.
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Mobile goodies
Last week enabled the gprs service (airtel mobile office) and also the mms and airtel live. From then, i have been installing themes, wallpapers, games and software for my sony ericsson w810i. Below are some of them: Hope you find them useful.
Links/Wap sites:
The teacher
sometimes, i feel life has been teaching me iin different ways different things. its going to be almost one year tat i have joined the CTS and working as software professional. Every day was a new experience to me. Sometimes i felt i am discovering myself, how i want to live life, how to enjoy, how to get along with others, how to live with yourself and many more. I even wondered why am i working like this in another state, just for money?
lot many things happening sometimies, and at times no movement at all. Are these silences just tea breaks during the sessions? I still wonder……
The horizon
Few days before read a blog on the net on the eve teasing.
That was literally, an outburst by a girl, of the pain she is experiencing because she was a girl. Most of the incidents written on it, reminded me of few similar incidents happened to myself or my friends..
It reminded me of the old days, where my mom used to explain to me, the small small things, and the precautions we need to take while going out. The everyday fears while going in buses or through lonely paths, the piercing stares which shoots from the unknown eyes, and the restrictions.. This was a very good post by the author which even opened many of my friends’ eyes.
From the beginning, it has always been like, if the child is a girl, its a curse on the family. why? only because they need to marry off the girl with huge dowry, have to live an unsecured life till the time she is with the family, and what not.. Why do the girls always get married and go to the boys house. Why only they should take the pain? The only reason which can be justified is that women can bear more pain, and are more patient etc. Ok, then if they have all those qualities, why are they ill treated? Why are they not given the respect? Why should they live their lives in fears. It is an underlying truth known to many people that men are more dependent on women, while its the vice versa on the front end.
Nowadays, the world has changed so much that, women needs to have a man in the front to live her life. The first half of her life, she is with parents. There she has to live in a organized way, learning all arts, and cooking, and also good in studies(added advantage),taking care of the behaviour, and being alert all the time, and has to be sure that she dresses in such a way, that everyone considers her as a good girl. All these are necessary so that, a bad name doesn’t falls on her. This will inturn is needed so that she gets good proposals, and makes her parents job more easy! And if she stays at home, for beyond a certain age, people will be eagerly creating interesting stories!!
And even for marriage, they are obedient if they agree to an arranged one, or else if they protest, then they are called stubborn or said to have prejudice etc..And after they get married, they have to get adjusted to the new household and lifestyle. Why this partiality!
Are girls not allowed to live in style? Cant they become trendy and look good? Cant they ride bikes? Why cant they hang out at night with their friends? And the most significant joke is all the boys who do hang out and praise and go behind such girls, want a straight forward country type girls as their life partner!! What does that mean now. Strange!!!!